5 Ways to Prepare for a Family Photo Session (That Aren’t What You Think)
Coordinating outfits, keeping your toddler clean, dodging meltdowns about schedule changes, bribing your young to use their real smile…I get it, family photo day can feel like a lot. Somewhere between the chaos, grumpy spouses, and the goldfish snacks, it’s easy to forget why you’re doing this in the first place.
But here’s the truth: the best photos aren’t about perfection. They’re about presence. If you're booking a session with me, here’s what I want you to know: You don’t need to perform.
One more time for the people in the back. You don’t need to perform. We’re not here for that.
You just need to show up, together. I’ll show you the way, and you’ll actually have a good time. Your spouse might even say “Hey, that wasn’t so bad.”
Here are 5 ways to prepare for a session that focuses on connection, not control:
1. Come As You Are (Yes, Really)
This isn’t about your “good side.” It’s about your real side. The way your child fits perfectly in your lap. The way your partner looks at you when you’re not watching. Those tiny in-between moments are where the magic lives, and it’s all the tiny pieces that weave beauty in our memories. Let go of perfect hair, matching socks, or Pinterest boards. If everybody is in itchy, too tight, or otherwise ‘weird’ feeling clothes, its a recipe for disaster. Just come as you are—messy love and all. Wear what feels good, and you’ll look good.
2. Forget the Posing—Let’s Play Instead
We’ll play games, chase light, and generally goof around. This isn’t about “cheese,” it’s about real laughter. Movement creates moments, and those moments tell your story far better than a stiff smile ever could.
3. Expect Chaos (It’s a Good Sign)
If your session includes kids, it will not go according to plan—and that’s perfect. Some of the most meaningful images I’ve captured were taken in the middle of sibling squabbles or snack breaks. Don’t fight the energy; lean into it. I promise, it photographs beautifully.
4. Don’t Tell Your Kid to Smile
I know this one’s hard. But forced smiles read exactly like they feel—uncomfortable. Let’s trust that joy will show up naturally when they’re relaxed and seen. If you’re calm, they’ll follow your lead. If they’re grumpy? That’s still your real life. That’s still love.
5. Focus on Each Other, Not the Camera
I want you to cuddle in. Whisper something silly. Sway side to side. Be present with your people. The more you forget about me, the more honest the photos become. You’re not here to impress me—you’re here to remember this season of life.
Here’s What Happens Next:
You book your session. You show up, breathe deep, and let go of the need to control every moment. I’ll guide you through, gently and thoughtfully. And together, we’ll create images that feel like you.
So take a breath. Leave the stress at the door. The only thing you really need to do is show up with your whole heart.
Ready to book? Let’s document the beauty that already exists. Contact me here
